Get the girls in the bar - Tips to Pick Up Bars

A Pick Up Bar is a classic place to meet women. Too bad that most people do not know how you get to know women in a pick up bar. This time I want some good advice on environmental justice as a girl in the pick up bar.

If I give advice I always try to tip in a way that you are in effective actions of lead and by that I mean you use less effort to achieve good results. Some call this law the law 20-80. I mean, you can spend 80 percent of your energyand your time but get only 20 percent of the results, or, it could be the opposite. I mean, you can spend 20 percent of your time and energy, and get 80 percent of the results... Any technique, any method, any explanation, that I bring on the art of seduction, is designed to help you to reach a level where your skills are effective, and you don't need to strain too much in order to get results.

A Pick Up Bar, is a social environment, and social environments, you have social value. In a social environment, it is very important to transmit a high level of social value. There's a classic Research, from the field of social dynamics and psychology, that I always love to show as an example. In the Research, you get an example of a guest lecturer who speaks in front of a university classroom about aliens. The students divided to 2 groups: to group A, it's been told that the lecturer is a professor of physics who works for NASA and to the second group it was told that he was a simple man with no professional training or education. It turns out that the members of group A, who thought that he was a professor, believed much more to his lecture and perceived him as a far more trustworthy person. Notice! We are talking about the same person, and exactly the same lecture. The only thing that has changed, is their perception of that guy.

The same principle also works in a Pick Up Bar. If I introduce a friend to a girl in a Pick Up Bar, and I tell her: "He's the most known club promoter in the Los Angeles area, he's throwing the most amazing parties with more than 20,000 people each month". Such an introduction of your friend, would give him a high social value and will generate attraction from the girl. Too bad most men, especially in places like Pick Up Bar, do not tend to introduce their friends with such an encouragement (perhaps they fear that they would steal their girls or something). What most men do not realize, is that if you present your friend as someone with a high social value, then it immediately shows, that you have a high social value (a simple principle - people with high social value tend to hang out together). So show friend is a very important place like Pick Up Bar. I always exaggerate when I introduce my friends: "That's my friend Mike, he's a yoga teacher, an amazing person, he's the best yoga teacher in Thailand, people come from all around the world to meet him, and he is visiting the country for a short period of time".